so, i had fully recovered and well,just wanted to share some of the experiences i had in life disregard on whether the people involved will be reading this. okay so i will start off with this, i knew this girl from a church,my friend's relatives and well, shes those typical ah lian type of girls. And yes i did go to church in the past and no,i no longer go to church anymore,i like being what i am now. So,lets call this girl ting. i had a relationship with her and well,things did not last for us. however,we still managed to keep in contact and things start getting bad when she comes borrowing money from me. initially,i lent it to her as i thought she might really need it and yes,she did claim it was BORROW, which meant she would return. time past and soon,she contacted me again for money AGAIN. time and time again,i had been borrowing money to her and not been getting any back. So there was this once recently when she asked for money AGAIN. well,i tried to reject but she just had to make a fuss out of it and irritate me and i had no choice but to oblige knowing that there will almost be a 100% chance i would not be getting my money back. Silly it is but still,i promised to lend the money to her AFTER she promised to return me the money in 2-3 days. days had passed,i had to pay for my bills which was like $200+ . knowing the due date was up,i contacted her and well,she made a fuss out of it and tried to make it my fault and back then,it felt so much she was NOT going to return me the money. so after the argument,i told her the truth that i do not mind her not returning me the money cause in fact thats the LAST time she will take any money from me because she is not going to be in my life anymore. With this,she said...she will return me the money the next day. However,she did NOT even contact me the next day and there i knew....just the way she was,shes a slut. i am sorry i had to use that word because i could not find any reasons to "appreciate" her. So,from then on....shes out of my life and yes,i know that by saying it here,im not keeping to my words. BUT,when i mean shes out of my life,it meant no longer as friends and THIS POST is specifically meant to give everyone an idea of how despicable some people can get to get money to satisfy theirselves.